Slavoj Zizek is insane. He is also brilliant. In the short clip from the documentary “Zizek!” Zizek contends that love is evil. Love is about excluding one thing to focus on another. A part of me wants to say, right on Zizzy! but then another part wants to say, wtf, mate?! Love is exclusionary. We shift our focus to the object or subject of our affection and in so doing we necessarily exclude other objects and subjects from our gaze. Is this a violent act? Is it evil, as zizzy suggests? I think not. Can it lead to evil? Without a doubt. There are two ideas at play here: 1. Love is necessarily exclusionary 2. By loving one thing more than an other, we do violence to that other. I agree with zizzy on the first note, but I have to disagree with the second. To love is not a difficult thing. We experience the pangs of love everyday. We are continually disappointed by the actions of others which suggests that we expect certain things from the actions of others. We expect the world to be a kind and caring place. If we didn’t, there would be no disappointments. We





